Negotiating For Fitness - jim Young “Exercise?! I thought my doctor said, “Extra Fries!” - anon The relationship between a patient and family doctor can be a little tricky. At least it is with me. I get that she’s the expert and knows what’s best for me. And I think she gets that I don’t always want what’s best for me. I want a doctor that will keep me alive for as long as possible. However there are caveats to that which requires some negotiation. For example, I am not now nor will I ever eat some foods even if they might help me live longer. Is spinach going to help me live longer? A simple “Yes” isn’t an acceptable answer. Maybe I just don’t want to live longer if it involves eating spinach. You gotta give me a specific number before I’m even going to consider it. My mother couldn’t make me eat spinach and neither can my doctor. But my doctor hasn’t even touched on my diet other than to hint that I could lose a few pounds. I just pat my stomach, grin and pr...